Elephant In The Room

Dating is one of the most talked-about but least understood topics among students. This message tackles what dating is, what it isn’t, and how to approach it with purpose, wisdom, and faith. Dating isn’t a game or a shortcut to happiness, it’s a process of discernment meant to prepare you for the covenant of marriage. While physical attraction is important (and God-designed), it shouldn’t be the foundation. Instead, students are encouraged to look for someone growing in Christ, with godly character, healthy friendships, and a heart that protects and honors. We also addressed the real temptations of dating, crossing sexual lines, pretending to be married without covenant, and becoming emotionally dependent. The gospel reminds us that we don’t need a relationship to be complete. Jesus already fulfilled that. Our challenge is to prepare our hearts for future marriage by becoming men and women of God now. Pray for your heart, your future spouse, and for wisdom to love and date in a way that reflects Christ and protects others.